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Memorial Day 2017

5/25/2017

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It’s All About Them…
By James Kuiken

Jim at Tomb of the Unknowns
For those who know me, you know that Memorial Day is the most personal, somber and important day of the year to me.  It is the day I normally go into my room, shut the door and watch old movies, like The Best Years of Our Lives, have a scotch or two, and visit with all my friends and brothers that never came back…there are too many of them.  

​I normally don’t write a blog post about it, but you may remember the Facebook post I wrote last year.  It lead into the video I always post (which is below), but the words I wrote about it were:
To those who went before, my grandfathers, and all my brothers and sisters...I will see you soon.

Until then, rest easy in God's hand and know that you "go now to rest in peace...knowing that you have done right with your time on earth.

You fought the good fight.

You finished the race.​

You kept the faith."
Not coincidentally, those are very close to the words that I hope are read over me some day, when I go to join all of them.  I can think of no higher honor.

I know for many, Memorial Day weekend is all about the sales and bargains.  For me, the day weighs too heavily, and the sales and commercials only serve to p!$$ me off…
Graveside
However, I am very happy that so many take that time to spend time with their families, enjoy the bar-b-ques and picnics, family outings, etc, and actually spend some time remembering, and even thanking the over 1.8 Million that have given their lives since 1775, including those who still do so today, in service to this country to make all that possible.

This day is all about them.  Those who have paid with their lives, to ensure that we, as Americans, have the rights and freedoms we enjoy today.  And please don’t forget those who have lost loved ones; the families, wives, husbands, children, parents – their sacrifice is just as severe, their lives forever changed, because their loved one chose to protect and serve.

That is why I always spend the day alone, because I need to have my friends with me that day…but this year I’m making an exception.  I’m coming out of my room, and Freedom and I will be riding on the Military Order of the Purple Heart float in the 2017 National Memorial Day Parade.  It’s not about us, not about me, not even about the MOPH or any other organization.  

It is a way that I can join fellow wounded combat veterans, in a national remembrance for all those who have sacrificed, given their lives or loved ones, in service to our Nation – protecting everything we hold dear.  They have paid the ultimate price, and I can honor them and bring attention – to them – by stepping out of my room, and sharing in our National Memorial Day remembrance.

And after it is all over, I can still come back home and have a scotch with my friends, my brothers…  
“Here's tae us; wha's like us? ...Damn few, an’ theyr a' deid!”


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Gone Fishing

5/18/2017

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Virus Scan, Shut Down and Reboot
By Jim Kuiken


As many of you know (those that subscribe to my “Weekly Recap”, which features upcoming events, latest blog posts, and other news), I took some time off to go with my good buddy Clint Goodwin to his annual fishing trip with a few family members and good friends – up to Black Lake NY, the place that prompted me to write “Peace” last year – still one of my absolute favorite articles.

It was time.

I was getting overloaded with the daily press of business, emails, texts, phone calls, meetings and events, finding time to write, and just everyday administrative responsibilities.

I needed to decompress.  Get some down time.  Clear my head, scan for viruses, shut down and reboot.

It’s amazing how necessary that is for all of us, but how we oftentimes don’t recognize it until we start getting completely overloaded…and when you do realize it, it’s so hard to find the time to do it, to unplug, to step away from the immediate and take some time for the important.

I could feel the blood pressure dropping, and a sense of peace start to infuse my body as we got into his truck (Clint, Freedom and me, with the three younger guys in the following truck), and headed out for a day-long scenic drive up to New York, just talking about fishing, the scenery, good times – and not a word about the daily grind.

The weather was supposed to be fine the first day, and cold, rainy and breezy the next two, but we came prepared.  

The good thing about unplugging, if you are prepared to enjoy it, is that you don’t have to work too hard to let all those pressures just slip away, shut down all the apps running in the back of your brain and taking up all that RAM.  You can just hear the processors and cooling fan slowing down as your body relaxes, tension draining out.  Here are some tips to make the most of your down time, no matter what you do with it.​
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  • Slow down, take a load off, and just enjoy each other’s company.  Enjoy the beauty and peace found almost anywhere.
Clint and Freedom

  • Great moments are always best when shared with family and friends. ​
Fish Licking Contest
  • When you’re enjoying your time, place or activity, always keep an eye out for the unexpected – it may be one of the highlights of your time away! ​
Catchin a Gar
  • Be prepared to encounter some rain along the way, and that way – even if you have to wear your dad’s golf rain jacket under your vest to hold it on and keep you warm – you can still enjoy the day…maybe even like being out in the rain. 
Freedom's Rain Coat
  • If you’re out there with a good friend, family or someone you love, treasure those quiet (or exciting) times together – they are part of the glue that only makes your bond stronger.  ​
Jim and Freedom Fishing
  • Take some time out to relax from relaxing, and just rest, decompress, and recharge. ​
Jim and Freedom Chilling
  • Celebrate other’s good fortune with them, enjoy the moments together. It makes it so much better for everyone, including you. ​
Mikes Fish
  • And of course, even on the way back…say, in the back of a truck for example…, savor and enjoy the afterglow of your time away.  There’s time enough to spin back up once you get home.
Freedom Sleeping
When you start feeling the pressure of today’s life, the bitterness and anger everywhere in the daily news, deadlines, work schedules, etc…, maybe it’s time to hang out your sign, shut down the apps, unplug for a while, and reboot.
Gone Fishing
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